10 Reasons Back Sleepers and Side Sleepers Sharing a Bed Must Stop Fighting Over One Pillow Height

Separate Amity starting arrangements on a double bed
By Calm Eden Sleep Editors
Amity pillow guide
Two sleepers · Two heights · One pillow design

One of you sleeps on your back, one of you sleeps on your side, and one pillow height never suits both. Stop compromising. Amity puts two heights on one pillow, so each of you flips to the height you need.

Four ways to set up the bed

Your choice Amity lower side Amity higher side Flat pillow Pillow stack
Height 3.5 inches 4.5 inches One height Changes nightly
Best for Back sleepers Side sleepers Nobody in particular Whoever rebuilds it
Shape Central cradle Central cradle Flat Slides apart
Cover Zip-off, quilted Zip-off, quilted Varies Two covers to wash

Amity has two heights within one butterfly contour. The back sleeper takes the lower side, the side sleeper takes the higher side, and nobody fights over the pillow again. Here are ten reasons to make the switch.

1. Back Sleepers and Side Sleepers Need Different Heights

1. Back Sleepers and Side Sleepers Need Different Heights

On your back, the gap under your neck is small, so a lower pillow feels right. On your side, your shoulder lifts your head, so you need more height. That is why one pillow height never suits both of you. Amity gives you 3.5 inches and 4.5 inches on one pillow.

2. Matching Pillows, Different Heights

2. Matching Pillows, Different Heights

You want the bed to look matched. With two Amity pillows it does, and each of you still sleeps at your own height. Same shape, same quilted cover, different side facing up.

3. A Cradle Beats a Flat Pillow for Both of You

3. A Cradle Beats a Flat Pillow for Both of You

Whichever way you sleep, a flat pillow lets your head drift. Amity's central cradle keeps your head in place and the raised edges support your neck, back sleeper or side sleeper.

4. No More Stealing Each Other's Pillows

4. No More Stealing Each Other's Pillows

When one pillow is too flat and the other too tall, the swapping starts at 2 a.m. Give each of you an Amity and the height question is settled for good.

5. Roll Over? Flip It.

5. Roll Over? Flip It.

Side sleeper who ends up on your back? Back sleeper who rolls onto a side? Flip the pillow to the other height in two seconds. No second pillow, no waking your partner to dig one out.

6. The Mattress Is Shared. The Height Doesn't Have to Be.

6. The Mattress Is Shared. The Height Doesn't Have to Be.

You share the bed, the duvet and probably the alarm. You do not have to share one pillow height. Amity lets each side of the bed have its own.

7. Clear the Spare Pillows Off the Bed

7. Clear the Spare Pillows Off the Bed

Couples collect pillows: spares, stacks and the one that gets folded in half. Two Amity pillows replace the pile, and the bed looks cleaner for it.

8. Easy Care for Two

8. Easy Care for Two

Each quilted cover zips off and is hand wash only. Buy 2 and the bundle adds a free silk pillowcase and a free silk eye mask.

9. Firm Edges, Soft Center, Two Sleepers

9. Firm Edges, Soft Center, Two Sleepers

Firmer 45D memory foam edges hold the neck and a softer 35D cradle holds the head. Both of you get the same construction, just at different heights.

10. Buy 2 and Save $135.00

10. Buy 2 and Save $135.00

Buy 2 Amity pillows for $125.00, just $62.50 each, and save $135.00. The bundle includes a free silk pillowcase and silk eye mask while gifts are stocked. Want spares for the guest room? Buy 3, Get 1 Free for $210.00.

CHOOSE THE 2-PACK

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This page is published by Calm Eden, which sells the Amity pillow. General sleep-comfort information, not medical advice.